Comments on: Anger Management for Success

By: tony ngari

tony ngari — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:29:36 +0000

It’s weird how things can go wrong when anger takes control over you and you react in ways that make you live a life of regret.
It has happened to me on a number of occassions, as I have a very short “fuse”. Thanks bro for this article, it’s inspiring, i have tried some of the stuff you have tackled as anger management techniques, but like I have found out, easier said than done. It can be quite hard trying them out, but I guess the key is to keep on trying rather than accepting the anger as a aprt of you, that you cannot control.
Benefits of anger are also a nice part of the argument, I remember helping out fellow staff in my old workplace by fighting against the harsh conditions we worked under, so much I was almost made shopsteward by the staff team at the age of 24, which would have been living hell to me. I think what happened then was that I had a great fear of responsibility..But that anger also turned me into a loser, for I resigned just before the terror attacks in the US in 2001 which led to a great tourism recession in Kenya, leaving me jobless for a year..victim of my anger or of circumstances beyond my control? I find it hard answering myself..

By: Kamau Warui

Kamau Warui — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 17:48:02 +0000

man, umegonga ndipo!!! anger is like a set of sharp teeth that may bite the owner’s tongue if not leashed.

By: Joy

Joy — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 06:40:03 +0000

Taking time away from the object or person making you angry works…..Thank you for highlighting that anger can be destrucitve if its not controlled… We may not avoid anger but we can control how much we allow it to get to us. We can choose to get angry for a day or an entire month, over the same issue. But its clear the dangers of keeping anger outweigh the benefits. I refuse to be manipulated by anger. Thanks Dan, keep doing your thing.

By: Carol

Carol — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 17:54:52 +0000

This is a well thought blog. The message it has is of grate value.

By: Charity

Charity — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 04:04:17 +0000

I never thought there was such a strong relationship between anger and success. Thanks Dan for this article. It is spot on.

By: Philip D.W.N

Philip D.W.N — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 02:29:33 +0000

Thanks for your enlightening article about anger and how to control it.People have different boiling points and in this case the higher the better.

By: paula

paula — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 22:48:53 +0000

Scripture says Do not let the sun go down on your anger.. The devil uses anger to get into us.. never give the devil a loop hole…
I made up my mind early in my spiritual life not to let any man/woman make me hate them.. Don’t get me wrong.. I don’t like the sin but I love the person.. God loves all of us. and so do I….
There will never come a day when I will get angry and hate someone… I refuse to be offended by anybody… positive thinking.. way to go..
Thx Dan

By: Job kungu

Job kungu — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 18:02:22 +0000

Thank you for this wonderful blog .infact the blog was timely to me .I had been undergoing anger the better part of today.Someone very close messed with me today and I was fuming like fire .I haboured ire that nearly melt my life ad asked myself thousand questions why I a person I truly trust can real soil my life with false allegations .untalk for. Innuendo and just to provoke me.
Nothing is vital and of great need like having tips to manage anger cause can be very costly ad distructive.we say hasira hasara.
Once again thank you.