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When you look out for the brighter side of life, you experience more positive events, become less stressed and enjoy yourself more. You end up creating more positive spirals in life. Optimism is a powerful emotion that steers one to life changing actions.
Being optimistic can bring better health and happiness. Optimism brings a positive mood, high morale, popularity, long life, success and freedom from stress.
Optimism can be learned. You can train yourself to interpret things in a more positive way. You can train yourself to look at a glass as being half full instead of being half empty. How do you respond when life doesn’t go your way? If you do not get the results you expected, do you give up, or do you up your game and try again?
What are upward spirals?
Have you ever had periods in your life where everything seems to be going well, and other periods when everything seems to be going all wrong?
We experience upward or downward spirals in life. Upward spirals mean success that breeds more success. Being optimistic helps steer us to action that improves our current situation. Optimism leads to actions that spur further success.
Optimism vs. Pessimism
Optimism is the feeling that all is going to turn out well. It is a general expectation of the best in all things. Optimists generally believe that people and events are inherently good, so that most situations work out in the end for the best.
Pessimism is the feeling that things will turn out badly. It means looking for the dark side and to expect the worst in all things. A pessimist is a person who expects the worst
The purpose of optimism is to help us thrive while the purpose of pessimism is to help us survive. Optimists are able to see opportunities, while pessimists see danger. What would you rather be; an optimist or a pessimist?
Optimism stirs people to action even when they fail. Pessimists like to think of themselves as more pragmatic and careful. An optimist may say “I tried and failed, maybe if I try again I will succeed”. A pessimist would say “I failed last time, there’s no point of trying again”.
Optimism and Networking
Optimists draw people towards them. Most people prefer to be near those who radiate positive energy. Optimism is contagious, it helps lift people up. It helps make and keep friends. Nobody wants to be surrounded by pessimists who spread gloom and bring them down. Uplifting souls are easier to network with. Improve your optimism in life and get a positive spiral in your networking efforts.
Optimism and Health
Optimists are less likely to die from any cause than pessimists. They are less likely to die from heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes or smoke cigarettes. Optimists are more likely to exercise and eat right. Optimists experience less stress, which means a stronger immune system.
Optimism and Relationships
Believing in your partner and your future together is a strong determinant of how you treat each other. Optimists see the best in their partners and take actions to improve their relationships. Pessimists on the other hand look out for the negative in their partners. Whatever the mind conceives becomes a reality.
Optimism and Careers
Optimists are more likely to succeed in careers. They see the best in people and seek out opportunities and take action to realize their goals. They believe in themselves and are more willing to take risks for career advancement. The more they advance or succeed in careers, the more optimistic they become.
Summary
Being optimistic helps people cope with life’s challenges. It improves health, mind and well being. This helps create positive upward spirals that breed more success.
How would you rate your optimism in various aspects of your life on a scale of 1 to 10?
- Finances
- Relationships
- Family
- Health
- Career
- Character
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Dan thanks alot for this piece piece, having had my ups and downs today i am more optimistic than ever before and this one according to me has just put me on the path to success but its a matter of time.
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This article is true.For a more scientific explanationof the same then get “the secret” video with the likes of Dr.Joe Vitale giving testimonies and advice plus other great minds.Enjoy…
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Without hope and optimism we cannot pull through some events in life. Yesterday i watched a very touching interview, an old tv personality in Kenya known as Lorna Irungu was giving the story of her life. In 2001 she was diagonized with Lupus which had already caused her total kidney failure and the life she knew, one that she had all planned was all another story,….i dont want to go to every detail of this, but since then she has gone through three kidney transplants and has a lupus condition added to manage. What amazed me and what has made her pull through a phase that very few people would oull through is her optimism. The belief that she will get well, the constant believe and telling her mind that she will pull though. Her energy is amazing. Optimism makes the entire difference.
If a person doesnt hope for a better tomorrow, then the drive to do better today to make tomorrow the best is eroded. Thank you Dan for a great article.
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optimism is a winner..i always hear people say i provoke a positive vibe within them when we meet and feel its a good thing..i try to look at every situation as “half full”…guess am learning well..thanks Dan..needed this!
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…yes indeed,we all go through very tough times in life as individuals,pathners,friends and even as families…. my family is going through one right now… only the very word,’optimism’,can help us ,that i know now
Dan, i need to reach you through your personal e-mail..
Dan, do you have an exact number of people you have affected positively through this piece of ‘magical tablet’?
Oh! how i luv it!
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I have always wondered why people are always smiling at me when I am walking in the streets, only with time did I realise I was the one smiling:)
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…as usual…another morning filled with good cheer…keep up bwana!!!
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I love the word optimism.. I guess am working on being that on every thing i do.. We all go through very tough times and trust me being hopeful is not even easy,…
Dan u bear me witness to that…
I will watch for comments on this one…
Dan your work is appreciated!!!
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Daniel Ngari Reply:
April 1st, 2009 at 10:45 am
@ Paula – Thank you for your constant support and contribution. You were the first person to ever post a comment on this blog, and your support has never wavered.
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