I know it takes a lot of guts for a man to open up with others, leave alone in a public forum such as this. Thank you sharing and I hope someone who might be going through the same is inspired by your comment.

It is interesting that you mention that strong will alone will not keep depression at bay. I guess we have to build good relationships and support networks to insulate us against tough times. Thank you also for reminding us that if one finds himself depressed, all is not lost and can get out of it, though it may take time.

I know you have gone on to find love and wish you the best. Thanks mate.

About five years ago I went through one of the most horrid challenges that any man could ever go through in their lives. I made the consious and final decision to end my marriage after I believe two years of trying to save it. And because of the critical issues surrounding the breakup and the climax to the eventual breakup, and because I had loved this woman soo much, I thereafter went into a deep depression that affected me for along time. I would go days without sleep, my self esteem was at it’s lowest in all my 40 years on this planet and anything I put my mind to doing wasn’t done to perfection. I always saw my marriage breakup as a reflection of what else I wouldn’t deliver!

Things took a down turn when my close friends and family begun to notice things which weren’t me. And after their intervention I have been able to rebuild my self esteem from scratch. The controlling element that actually held the centre and stalled my spin to the final abyss was probably my natural instict for being a fighter. My will, strong will saved the day but DIDNT stop the depression. I think at the end of the day it’s what we do to get out than what precedes the depression.

The buck stops with us. We alone hold that valuable key that will unlock that dark side to a brighter day or lock us in to disaster in dead land!

About five years ago I went through one of the most horrid challenges that any man could go through in their lives. I made the consious and final decision to end my marriage after I believe two years of trying to save it. And because of the critical issues surrounding the breakup and the climax to the eventual breakup, and because I had loved this woman soo much, I thereafter went into a deep depression that affected me for along time. I would go days without sleep, my self esteem was at it’s lowest in all my 40 years on this planet and anything I put my mind to doing wasn’t done to perfection. I always so my marriage breakup as a reflection of what else I wouldn’t deliver!

Things took a down turn when my close friends and family beun to notice things which weren’t me. And after their intervention I have been able to rebuild my self esteem from scratch. The controlling element that actually held the centre and stalled my spin to the final abyss was probably my natural instict for being a fighter. My will, strong will saved the day DIDNT stop the depression. I think at the end of the it’s what we do to gt out than what precedes the depression.

The buck stops with us. We alone hold that valuable key that will unlock that dark side to a brighter day or lock us to disaster in dead land!

hope you enjoying the cool weather in bed if ur in Perth.Thanks Daniel for the post its a brave move.

Mental illness can lead to a dilapidated lifestyle and unfavorable results.

The big question should probably be what causes depression? They are many factors that can cause this, but the underlying cause is when our sense of being or ideas of who we are threatened and we try and resist it.

Mental illness i think has been misunderstood for a very long time , Not surprisingly, most people who are depressed usually still remain depressed even after medication. I am not for antidepressants, besides that factor that it can help in some serve cases.

Dorothey rowe has been in the for front of research that has completely changed the understanding of mental illness. I recommend everyone read Dorothy Rowe’s articles and work of reasearch.(http://www.dorothyrowe.com.au/) i bet this will change your life.

A Couple of days ago I received a message from 972-284-0600 and was made to believe the the person calling was a scammer.

So without thinking, I went nuts – and called the government and yell.

Make a long story short Gulf Coast Western -the oil company- was trying to make contact was returning a call from last months interview – telling me I got the job

Any idea how to uncomplain and fix this?!!!

Does this make sense?

Enjoy.

I\’ve been looking for a Iphone supported wifi internet search engine.

Google & the normal Search Engines simply don\’t work.

I\’m looking for something similar to FRomPo.com – apparently is above average mobile phone search engine – but I thought I\’d ask anyway.

Care to tell me what search engine your using??

Ive spent a lot of time searching for a Blackberry supported cellular phone web search engine.

Google & the normal web based search engines simply fail to work.

I\’d like to use something like FromPo.com – which works great web phone search engine – but I thought I\’d ask anyway.

What is the best mobile phone search engine?