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The Girl Who Smoked Me Out of My Cave

Her name is Rose. She grabbed yours truly with both hands from his Tora Bora hideout. She stirred me into action!

It has been a full year since I wrote something on this blog. Many people wondered where I went to. Many stopped seeing the name “Daniel Ngari” on Facebook, Twitter and in their mailboxes. Someone even asked me “So where the bloody hell are you?“.

I will soon write a blog post explaining my leave of absence; and unveil what I have been working on in that period. but for now, SIT BACK!!! and watch this amazing girl, Rose Nasimiyu. Then follow the instructions at the end of the blog post.

If you are in a position to help financially, please do, if not,you can still help by spreading  the word by sharing this blog post with friends.

My man Shakespear said, “that which we call a rose would by any other name smell as sweet”. He could well have been talking about Rose Nasimiyu.  She is only nine years old, in Nairobi Kenya and is a cancer survivor with an amazing story; inspiring others and being strong. I just talked to her on the phone and want to do my best to help spread her message.

You can help by sending her mother money. Her mother’s name is Phoebe Nafula. Her phone number is +254724551754. You can send her money through Western Union or through Mpesa if you are in Kenya. You can send any amount as every little bit counts.

For those outside the country (Kenya), it may be easiest to send money through BabaWatoto.com http://www.babawatoto.com or through MamaMikes http://www.mamamikes.com both reliable and reputable remittance websites that are popular with Kenyans abroad. They are both safe and you can send money directly to a person’s phone in Kenya. They are based in USA but have offices in Kenya.

Her details again: Phoebe Nafula, phone number +254724551754.

Special thanks goes to Jeff Koinanage for the good work he does on The Bench at K24TV. Thanks for the inspiring stories.

Please leave your comments after watching this video. Here are a few comments from others who have watched the videos.

“Baby Rose- You are an inspiration to many. You will live another day as per your prayer always. i have no words for you other that MAY GOD GRANT YOUR WISHES, and we Pray for you too.

Mr. Jeff- This was soo inspiring. Please bring such little beautiful angels to inspire and speak sense like the little girl………………….than­k you – ronniestrobes “

I can’t hold back my tears,may God feel mercy on her.You will live child,nothing is impossible before the eyes of God!! –
cathnj08

Building a Strong Foundation for Success

A sky scraper’s foundation is different from that of a single floor house. The kind of success you desire must have a matching foundation. Invest in a good foundation to build lasting success.

Think through that which you want to build. Reflect on the implications of your success. Visualize on the magnitude of the success you desire. If you have big dreams, then you should have a strong foundation.

Spend the time learning the ropes, training and getting experiences. I have been in situations where I have succeeded without having properly built a foundation. It is not a good feeling when you have to live with the fear of your success crumbling. My experience has taught me that it is better to wait to succeed than succeed when you are not ready.
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Chapter 10: Further Use of the Will

YOU cannot retain a true and clear vision of wealth if you are constantly turning your attention to opposing pictures, whether they be external or imaginary. Do not tell of your past troubles of a financial nature, if you have had them, do not think of them at all. Do not tell of the poverty of your parents, or the hardships of your early life; to do any of these things is to mentally class yourself with the poor for the time being, and it will certainly check the movement of things in your direction.

“Let the dead bury their dead,” as Jesus said. (more…)

Rest in Peace Michael Jackson

Michael Jackson reportedly collapsed at a home he was renting in west Los Angeles. Los Angeles Fire Department paramedics responded to a 911 call at 12:21 pm local (Pacific) time and arrived at 12:30 pm. Jackson was reportedly not breathing and CPR was quickly performed.  He fell into a coma and died shortly after being rushed to UCLA Medical Center.  The cause of death is reported to be cardiac arrest.  Jackson was pronounced dead at about 2:26 pm local time. (more…)

Personal Branding for Rich Men

Most of my theories on personal branding would not resonate well with people in the little village I come from  in Kenya. Bob Marley said “a hungry man is an angry man”. I say a hungry man has little time for personal branding. Personal branding seems to work better for rich men, and for good reason. (more…)

10 Steps to Personal Branding Success

Today’s blog post walks you through 10 simple steps that guarantee personal branding success. Excellence in personal branding takes time. The following steps will save you time and agony in your branding efforts. (more…)

Bouncing Back From Adversity

You may spend years building your personal brand but see it evaporate overnight. What do you do in the morning? Do you pick up the pieces and start again or do you run for the mountains? (more…)

What does all Talk and No Action make You?

We all know “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy”. But what does “all talk and no action” make you?  What impact does talking without follow-through have on your personal brand? What impact does making false promises have on your reputation?  Today’s post is dedicated to those amongst us that are action impaired. (more…)

How to Get Results Using Your Personal Brand

Why go through the trouble of personal branding? Why spend time, money and energy building your profile and personal brand? It is because a good personal brand gets results. It makes people take action. It opens doors that would otherwise be closed. Astute marketers use a model called AIDA to get results; and so can you. (more…)

7 Quick and Dirty Ways to Become a Charmer

Charming your way to people’s minds and hearts will bring love, joy and prosperity to your life. It is the simple things you do that enhance your personal brand. Charmers are attractive; they make people feel good and bring out the best in others.

Not all charmers are magicians, but they all cast a magic spell on others. They induce others to act. They persuade others to do what they want them to do. Welcome to my little, quick and dirty guide to becoming a charmer. (more…)

What is Personal Branding from Within?

The truth outs. The truth about who you really are eventually comes out. You can fool some people sometimes, you can fool some people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time. The best way to enhance your personal brand is to change your internals; your thoughts, your emotions, your habits and your character. (more…)

17 Habits that Radiate Success

You probably know that if you radiate success people will treat you better. Today we look at 17 habits and ideas that project an image of prosperity. You can prosper by branding yourself as successful. Let us get down to business… (more…)

How to use Blogging for Personal Branding

I always wondered why people  try to convert others to their way of thinking and way of doing things. A real estate developer may try to influence you to invest in property. A preacher may try to get you to say goodbye to a life of sin. And then there are bloggers (like me) trying to get you to start your own blog. Why is that?

 When people get to do something, they get a deeper understanding of it. They see the insider benefits more clearly. I have seen the effects of blogging on my personal branding efforts. I will present the case for blogging to you; with the hope of inspiring you to start a blog today. (more…)

How to Use Social Media for Personal Branding

Gone are the days when you had to wait to be featured in a magazine, newspaper or TV program to become a household name. You now can propel your personal brand to the stratosphere in a very short time. You can use the power of social media to easily and quickly communicate your personal brand message to your target audience. Here is the “how-to” guide. (more…)

How Low Can You Sink?

My sister says that I swim like sediment. I tell myself that I am a pretty good swimmer; problem is, I cannot float. But as soon as I learn to float, I will be swimming from coast to coast. The last time I tried swimming at Cottesloe Beach in Western Australia, I sunk like the titanic. And that was just after watching Ghosts of the Abyss. Have you ever seen that movie? It is my all time favorite 3D movie.

In the movie Ghosts of the Abyss, master storyteller James Cameron journeys back to the legendary wreck of the Titanic.  He captivates 3D moviegoers with vivid sights of the majestic Titanic. The movie goes deep into the ocean floor to the wreckage, inside and out, as never seen before. Using state of the art technology, Cameron and his crew explore the insides of the wreckage, interspersed with imagery of the ship as it looked like before sinking. It was a site where 1,500 souls perished; the depths of the ocean where you do not want to sink your personal brand. (more…)

10 Personal Branding Lessons from Legends

What better way of enhancing your personal brand than learning from legends. I hope the legendary exploits of the 10 individuals in today’s blog post will inspire you to move your brand a notch higher. Apply one or more of the lessons in this post and you will have a more powerful personal brand. (more…)

Why SWOT Your Personal Brand?

You are the CEO of a brand called YOU. Imagine calling a board meeting to discuss how best to enhance and communicate your brand. Think of you as a brand, just like Nike, Rolex, Gillette, Google or Guinness. What does your brand represent? What makes you different? (more…)

Are You A Purple Cow?

I recently read Seth Godin’s new book, Purple Cow. The book talks about transforming your business by being remarkable. In today’s competitive world, you cannot afford to be ordinary. Ordinary is the new invisible. You’re either a Purple Cow or you’re not. You’re either remarkable or invisible. Make your choice. (more…)

10+ Reasons to Beef Up Your Personal Brand

When I first came to Australia, my shopping trolley was always overflowing with gold. My salt was Black and Gold, my sugar was Black and Gold, my whole shopping trolley was Black and Gold. I always wondered why anybody would buy anything other than Black and Gold.

Black and Gold is a value for money generic brand for hundreds of essential items on supermarket shelves in Australia. Yet few affluent people will be caught with black and gold products on their shopping baskets. It makes me ask myself, why is it that people world over are willing to pay a premium for beefed up brands. How can you beef up your personal brand? Why should you? (more…)

3 Seconds First Impression

You don’t need a second chance to make a first impression. In fact you only have 3 seconds to make a first impression. Changing that first impression is harder than learning a new language. If you absolutely must make a lasting impression, you need to pack the best of you in those 3 seconds. Have I used up my 3 seconds yet? (more…)

How I Became a Chameleon

I grew up on a small farm on the outskirts of Nairobi, Kenya. As a little boy I used to do what now reeks of animal cruelty. On Saturdays when I had time on my hands, I would grab six towels for my crazy experiment. Red, Blue, Green, Orange, Yellow and Grey.

Then I would go to the bushes behind out house and spend an hour or four looking for a chameleon. They were hard to find for the same reason I was seeking them (camouflage). I was sinfully fascinated with how they would change color. Placing the poor reptile on the red towel turned it red; green turned it green. Little did I know that one day, I would turn into a chameleon. (more…)

100 Blog Posts Milestone!

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. A single blog post on 5th of Jan 2009 was what set this blog in motion. I set out on a self discovery journey, with the aim of freeing myself from negative energy and to inspire my friends in the process.

The last four months have been an exciting journey for me. I have learned so much about the power of positive thinking and shared most of what I have learned. When you share something, it comes back to you, in good measure, pressed and well shaken. (more…)

A – Z of Sports and Success

The final whistle has been blown on the Sports Series. We have a few minutes of extra time and I think it is a good idea to end the series with a recap of the basics of sports and success. Today we look at the ABCD to Z of powerful ideas and lessons that we can take with us. (more…)

How to Transition from Amateur to Professional

Are you an amateur or a professional? Do you get paid to play with what you love? Tiger Woods gets paid to play Golf, Kobe Bryant for Basketball and Lewis Hamilton for racing. Professionals make a living doing what they love, well; some of them don’t really love what they do, but that’s another story.

 Mass media and increased leisure time has allowed sports men and women to command high pay as professional players. These players are able to make sport their primary career and gain immense opportunities for training and skill development. Going pro opens a whole world of opportunities. Transitioning from amateur to professional can be a little tricky though. (more…)

7 Time Management Lessons From Sports

With only 24 hours in a day, time is a finite resource that has to be well managed. If you manage to think through all aspects of sports, you will realize that there are many lessons in sports on time. Sports and time are natively interlinked. 

Every minute counts in sports. The last five minutes of a world cup soccer game keeps fans at the edge of their seats. This is especially true if the game is hotly contested. In boxing, every micro second counts. It can be the difference between life and death. (more…)

Its Your Choice: Make Progress or be Relegated

Just like in sports, you can be relegated to lower ranks if you do not prove your worth in business, relationships, money and careers. Promotion and relegation in sports takes place at the end of each season. It involves teams being transferred between divisions. 

The best-ranked teams in each division are promoted to the next-highest division, and at the same time the worst-ranked teams in the higher division are relegated (or demoted) to the lower division. In the English premier league, the bottom three teams are relegated. I hope today’s blog post inspires you to avoid the bottom positions. If you are not making progress, you risk being relegated. (more…)

How to Make Money like Elite Athletes

A certain businessman was leaving home for a six months around the world trip. Just before his taxi to the airport arrived, he left called three of his employees, Mike, John and Frank. He gave Mike five hundred dollars, gave John two hundred dollars and one hundred dollars to Frank. Then he left. (more…)

How to Achieve Peak Performance in 30 Days

Today’s post is a little different. We look at a specific case of someone who wants to achieve a home business goal. A boxer stepping into the ring while at their peak is a dangerous machine. A tennis pro playing at their peak makes for exciting TV. Achieving peak performance has real benefits and provides a near certain path for goals attainment. I hope to inspire you to achieve peak performance in the next 30 days. Find out how. (more…)

Get the Most from Your Personal Cheering Squad

Have you ever had a group of people cheering you on wildly? I experienced the feeling in high school when I played hockey. The wild roar of a cheering squad shouting your name is a powerful energizer. It propels individuals or teams to give their best. It can make all the difference in crucial matches. In crucial moments of your life, your cheering squad will encourage you and inspire you to greater heights. (more…)

The Untold World of Success Coaching

Its getting late the sun is about to set. You find yourself reflecting on how your life has been lately. You think back over the last 10 years. You remember the dreams and hopes that you had. Memories and thoughts of missed opportunities. What went wrong? What can you do to improve things in your life? Maybe your motivation is running on low. You do not feel like taking action. You wish you had a coach. You wish that someone could come along and give you a magic pill. Someone to tell you do this or do that and everything will be alright. (more…)